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陈凯转/林书豪给我们的十个启示 Jeremy Lin
陈凯转/林书豪给我们的十个启示 Jeremy Linin 陈凯论坛 Kai Chen Forum 不自由，毋宁死! Give Me Liberty or Give Me Death! Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:17 am
by fountainheadkc • 1.370 Posts
Just Lin, Baby!
Eric Jackson (Forbes Magazine)
10 Lessons Jeremy Lin Can Teach Us Before We Go To Work Monday Morning
Lin-sanity has swept up the NBA over the last week. Now it seems like the phenomenon has gone worldwide.
Fridayís 38 point performance by Harvard grad Jeremy Lin for the New York Knicks against the LA Lakers was his greatest performance yet as a starter, since he burst on to the scene and propelled the team to 4 straight wins.
Lin now has over 200,000 followers on Twitter. Heís got over 800,000 on Weibo Ė including 200,000 new ones in the 24 hour period after beating the Lakers.
But thereís more to this story than basketball. This isnít just a modern-day, real-life version of the Hoosiers movie. The Jeremy Lin story is incredibly popular because we can all see a little bit of ourselves in this manís struggles and now successes.
What can all of us learn from this young man ó and how can we apply these same lessons to our own lives when we go back to work on Monday morning?
1. Believe in yourself when no one else does. 坚信自身
Linís only the 3rd graduate from Harvard to make it to the NBA. Heís also one of only a handful of Asian-Americans to make it. He was sent by the Knicks to play for their D-League team 3 weeks ago in Erie, PA. Heíd already been cut by two other NBA teams before joining the Knicks this year. Youíve got to believe in yourself, even when no one else does.
2. Seize the opportunity when it comes up. 抓住机遇
Lin got to start for the Knicks because they had to start him. They had too many injuries. Baron Davis was gone. The other point guards were out. Carmelo Anthony was injured. Amare Stoudemire had to leave the team because of a family death. Lin could have squandered the opportunity and we would have never have noticed. But he made the most of it. You never know when opportunities are going to arise in life. Often, theyíre when you least expect them. Make the most of them. Donít fritter them away.
3. Your family will always be there for you, so be there for them. 欣赏亲助
It wasnít until a few days ago that Lin got his contract guaranteed by the Knicks for the rest of the season. Before that, he could have been cut at any time. He had to sleep on his brotherís couch on the Lower East Side to get by. His family always believed in him and picked him up when he could have gotten down on himself. That made him continue to believe. If you want your family to believe in you like that, youíve got to be there for them too when they need it.
4. Find the system that works for your style. 发现适己
Lin isnít Michael Jordan or Kobe Bryant. Heís not a pure scorer. Heís a passer and distributor Ė who can also score very well. It didnít work for him in Golden State or Houston Ė where he was before landing at the Knicks. But Mike DíAntoniís system at the Knicks has been perfect for him to show off his strengths. Youíve got to do your best to understand what your strengths are and then ensure that youíre in a system (a job or organization or industry) that is a good fit for those strengths. Otherwise, people overlook the talents you bring to the table.
5. Donít overlook talent that might exist around you today on your team. 莫错良才
You probably manage people at your own company today. Are you sure you donít have a Jeremy Lin living among you now? How do you know that ďMikeĒ couldnít do amazing things if you gave him a new project to run with? How do you know ďSarahĒ isnít the right person to take the open job in London that youíve been talking over with your colleagues? We put people around us in boxes. Heís from Harvard. Heís Asian-American. Not sure he can play. How many assumptions have you made about talent around you? Donít be like the General Managers in Golden State and Houston, and let talent slip through your fingers. With all their money, scouts, and testing, they didnít have a clue what they had in their hands. Do you know what your people (or even yourself) is really capable of? Take off the blinders of assumptions you wear when you look at the world.
6. People will love you for being an original, not trying to be someone else. 忠实原己
Youíve got to be you. You canít be some 2nd rate copy of Michael Jordan. There will never be another Michael Jordan. Just be Jeremy Lin ó yourself. Whatever that is. That doesnít mean you donít work hard ó it just means you find what youíre good at and do it. Fans will love you for being you, just like they love Jeremy Lin. Judy Garland said it best:
ďAlways be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.Ē
7. Stay humble. 避免枉大
If you one day are lucky enough to have newspapers want to put you on the cover in order to sell more, donít let it get to your head. Itís been remarkable watching how humble Lin remains through all this media frenzy. It makes his teammates and fans love him that much more.
8. When you make others around you look good, they will love you forever. 尊重同仁
I didnít know how good Tyson Chandler was, until I saw him playing with Jeremy Lin. Lin has set Chandler up many times over the last week for easy dunks because he drew the defense and then passed the ball. Thatís partly why the Knicks are playing so well. They are all working harder to share the ball with others. And itís beautiful to watch. And when the media swarms Lin, he tells them how good his teammates are. Do the same with your peers and reports.
9. Never forget about the importance of luck or fate in life. 不忘感恩
Some people believe in God, some in destiny, some in luck. Whatever you believe in, be grateful for it.
10. Work your butt off. Lin couldnít have seized his opportunity if he hadnít worked like crazy for years perfecting his skills. 不走捷径
There are no short cuts to hard work. Success is a by product of that. If youíve got a Tiger Mom whoís always pushed you to work hard, great. If not, let your conscience be your own Tiger Mom! Get up early, stay up late. Nobody gave Lin any free passes. Why should you get any? You can only control what you control and that means youíve got to work harder than anyone else you know.
I hope the Lin-sanity continues. And I hope we all can apply these lessons to our own work and family life.
Thereís a great line from a New York Times article on Lin and his faith which is worth it for all of us to remember:
ďsuffering produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us.Ē
RE: 陈凯转/林书豪给我们的十个启示 Jeremy Linin 陈凯论坛 Kai Chen Forum 不自由，毋宁死! Give Me Liberty or Give Me Death! Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:38 pm
by fountainheadkc • 1.370 Posts
Power of Money, By Adam Khoo
(Singapore's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand and Suzhou (China). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is traveling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire.' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self-made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2-year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and Drama without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Organization) a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business). I discovered that those who were self-made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m, travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota's and Nissans, not Audis, Mercs, BMWs.
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation. Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life.
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired someone's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing, trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.